Thursday, December 16, 2010

Nuptial Bliss


Nuptial Bliss !!
:)
Attended the wedding of my brother , they knew each other from the last 7 years ....
I sat with my brother , who had mehendi on both hands , and was reluctant to take it off even at night 2 o clock . cuz he wanted the color to get the darkest... :) cute naa :)

We sat outside in the chilling cold .. and i had a chance to speak to him abt bhabhi n him . He is usually quiet about all these things :) . I asked him ," when did you know , you had to marry this girl ? " , answer ... " the time i met her . We both just knew it ...it was just like " so when should we get married? " "
:)
I knew it was not a filmy ans . Beacause i cud sense how happy, confidant he was when he said that ...

I was really happy for him !
:)


Its nice to see both tie the nuptial knot :)
But I have seen one thing , very evident ..... even if the girl knows the guy from 10 yrs and then get married , she is still wonders ... if she would be accepted by the guy's side , whether she will be understood , will there be any1 to help her out .....

even if the girl has known the guy from 20 yrs , her eyes will still get wet when she leaves her house (even tho it is for the time being :P yea for me , its going to be lik that :D ) & that time , to be held strongly in the arms of the one taking you as a gesture of " hey m there with yu gurl ! " , is a beautiful feeling :)

Its very important to comfort the new member whom you bring to your family . Its your responsibility that the new member does not follow a custom which is meaningless .. or which is causing discomfort to the member ...

The most exciting part is when you understand the 7 promises and give your consent to it .... when you officially take the lady as your wife , when you have the first official meal in front of all that when you say to yourself "Boss , this is serious business .. YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED !! : lol , life changes .... and it feels superb ! :)

It was a really a nice experience to be a part of the wedding .... EVERYONE cannot be happy , what really matters at the end of the day , if the two , for whom the whole function is for , are happy !

Wishing my brother and bhabhi a beautiful life together !
can just wish to be a queen the time when i get married :) :) :) HOPE SO ;)